Learning how to adapt oneself to changes is not an act of cowardice.
Sticking to one’s stubbornness
May lead to a lifelong regret.
It may even cast one’s prospects and career
Entirely into permanent ruin and failure.
Taking advice and suggestions from others
Is different from accepting malicious slanders offered by wicked persons.
It is like taking criticism and comments.
Its main purpose is to manage matters and tackle problems well
So that imperfections are all eliminated.
Before one actually hits one’s target and procures what one craves for, one would usually adore it, covet for it and try one’s best to pursue it.
After one obtains what one has worked very hard to acquire, one would then take it for granted, treat it as nothing unusual, and overlook it.
Between chasing after something and capturing it,
One is always confounded and perplexed at what he/she really wants and why he/she wants it.